WTF!?!?!

Do men ever grow out of the selfishness of youth? Or should I just expect that my husband will always expect to get what he wants, even at the expense of others? If what is going on isn't exactly what he wants or somehow displeases him then there is hell to pay. He always talks about how he wants to buy a bigger house, or he wants to get a new car, or he want's this or that, on and on about what he wants. The problem is we don't have the money for all of his wants. He got offered a promotion at work, and a large pay raise to go with it. It would allow us to get more of the things that he wants. The issue is the job is inside a building. He wants to work outside. That is the ONLY problem he has with the job. On the flip side the positives of this job are overwhelming... more money, safer job (he would no longer be on the side of the highway while cars whiz by at 70 miles an hour), permanancy (he is currently a "temporary" employee, technically). But because he doesn't like the fact that he would have to give up his outdoor job he might not take the new job. His salary would jump around $7,000-$10,000 a year! He would have job security, so we wouldn't have to worry as much about him being out of a job! WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM???????